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Where connection becomes possibility.
Here, you’ll find articles that invite you to think differently about relationships, how they shape your confidence, your opportunities, and your sense of belonging. Whether you’re building new connections or strengthening existing ones, you’ll find practical insight and reflection to help you show up more fully. Join me and start growing your social wealth one relationship at a time.
Your Personality Isn’t Fixed. Here’s How to Get Better at People
Personality tests can be fun, but what if the traits they assign you aren’t set in stone? I discovered that in just six years, my own profile shifted from ISFJ to ESFJ, proving that introversion and extraversion exist on a spectrum. If social confidence feels out of reach, it might not be about your personality at all. It might be about practice. Here’s why labeling yourself could be holding you back and how to start changing for the better.
Making Social Connection Stick
Most of us fall into the pattern of waiting for someone to invite us or until we feel confident. But momentum doesn’t happen by chance. It comes from consistent, intentional action. In this final week of the series, learn how to make connection a habit and let small actions compound into meaningful relationships.
No More Wallflower Moments
Most of us have spent years learning how to watch, silently measuring whether we belong. Observation feels safe but it also keeps us on the sidelines. Engagement asks us to step into discomfort, to be present without needing to perform. Curiosity plus action creates space for real connection. Small moments, making eye contact, asking a question, offering a smile, build confidence naturally. The shift from observer to participant is subtle, but over time, it changes everything.
Curiosity: Your Shortcut from Hesitation to Connection
Most of us want more human connection but our brains can make it feel too risky to step in. Curiosity gives you a way to leave your head, approach social situations with interest instead of expectation, and discover that connection doesn’t start with confidence. It starts with noticing who’s in front of you.
Getting Out of Your Head and Into the Room
You want connection. You want to go. But something keeps you waiting in the wings, running scenarios, rehearsing conversations, and talking yourself out of it at the last minute.
This piece is about that version of you and the small shift that turns overthinking into showing up.
It’s Not the Relationship You Want. It’s the Feeling It Gives You
We think we want relationships, but what we’re really chasing are the feelings they bring: belonging, support, influence, security, and connection. Just like money, it’s never about the thing itself, but what it makes possible. And before we can build the relationships that create those feelings, there’s one foundational skill we need: social confidence.